Crying with Chuck on a Friday the 13th

Friday the 13th.. a secluded theater.. I saw The Life of Chuck, and I’ll be honest — I felt like it was a movie I needed to see as soon as possible. And I felt it was a movie I needed to see alone.

I had heard some early reviews. People called it a “tearjerker,” and they weren’t wrong. But more than that, it felt personal. Intimate. Not something I wanted to experience in a crowded theater with familiar faces nearby. So I went to an early showing, sparsely populated, quiet. It was just me — and, interestingly, a few other men, also sitting alone, also spread out like emotional islands in the dark.

From time to time, I noticed a glance — from one of them to me, or from me to someone else. Like we were silently wondering: Are you feeling this too? And I think we were. When the movie ended, none of us rushed out. We all sat there — through the credits — as the Newton Brothers played the final song. Not moving. Not speaking. Just absorbing.

I’m not saying I found the meaning of life in that moment… but maybe I did. Or maybe I will, when I think more about it.

What I can tell you is this: The Life of Chuck isn’t a movie you walk out of quickly, or fully understand in one sitting. There are no spoilers to avoid, no mystery to solve. In fact, the third act plays first, and the first act plays last. But somehow, the story still feels cohesive — circular, poetic, and profoundly human.

Mike Flanagan, adapting Stephen King’s short story, doesn’t just direct this — he masters it. He crafts something important. Something timeless. And I’m not sure we’ll recognize just how important it is until we’re further away from it, looking back.

I saw the movie on Friday the 13th, a day that felt, in the world, like a pressure cooker: talk of violent protests, military parades, and escalating conflict in the Middle East. It was all there — anxiety, dread, the sense of impending collapse. And yet this film gave me a brief but powerful timeout from all of that. Not a careless distraction, but a moment of reflection. I was actually scanning the news on my phone before the previews started, like many of us do, caught in the loop of doomscrolling.

But when the movie began, something shifted.

I was gripped. Not by suspense or horror, but by truth. By something deeper. I was drawn into Chuck’s world, his memories, his story. And at some point, I wasn’t just watching the movie — I was feeling it. I became Chuck, in some strange way. Maybe we all did. And when it ended, I felt dread and hope simultaneously — a rare pairing that only certain stories manage to unlock.

As the movie puts it: the waiting is the worst part.

I don’t think this film will fade with time. I think it will grow — in meaning, in relevance, in emotional weight. And I think I’ll always be glad I saw it alone. I needed those several minutes of credits to let my eyes stop watering. I needed my brain to find the bravery to stand up and leave. I think the other men in the theater did too — we all exited quietly, respectfully, giving each other the space to feel without judgment.

And here’s how I know The Life of Chuck worked:

The first thing I wanted to do after leaving the theater… was dance ..